If you’ve just decided to start dressing more modestly, you may feel a little lost about how to do so while still looking fashionable. Contrary to popular belief, “modest” and “fashionable” are not enemies. Decide what your standards of modesty are, and find trendy pieces that fit within those standards. Add layers to make things more modest, and adorn yourself with the right accessories to add flair to your look.
Every girl has her own standards for modesty. For some, religious beliefs may demand that the entire body remains covered when in public. For others, modesty may simply mean avoiding cleavage and minding hemlines. If your own standards are still in development, consider adopting a few basic guidelines as you build your wardrobe.
- Keep your necklines no lower than four fingers below the collarbone. Anything lower may begin showing cleavage.
- Avoid sheer materials or fabrics that sculpt your body, like spandex. These are often considered too revealing, and onlookers may be able to see your bra through tops like these.
- Draw attention to your face, not your bust. Keep details on the collar, not the chest.
- Keep your back covered. Avoid halter or backless garments.
- Keep your shoulders covered. Try to wear tank tops with some covering over them.
- Mind the buttons on your shirt. Make sure that there are no gaps in between your buttons that could reveal the skin beneath.
- Wear pants that are fitted, but not excessively tight in the seat or thigh. You should be able to pinch and pull a bit of the fabric away from your leg.
- Keep panty lines hidden. Pantyhose, slips, and “thigh shapers” can help create a smooth appearance, if needed.
- Choose shorts and skirts that extend past your arms. Hold your arms straight down at your sides. Keep your fingers extended, and make sure that your lower hems fall below the longest finger.
- Opt for dresses that have sleeves or straps that are at least two inches thick. If you have anything thinner than that, throw a wrap or sweater over it.
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