Hi Admin,
I’m not interested in dating or anything because I’m only 15 and I have to study and stuff but a lot of my friends (younger) already have boyfriends and girlfriends. So what age it is that you’re meant to have a GF/BF?
RESPONSE: One thing that’s remained true is that teen romantic relationships can have long-term effects on your self-esteem and your personal values about romance, intimate relationships and sexuality—which is why it’s important to talk with your parents instead of falling for peer pressure. And of course, dating means different things to different people. You’ve got to have all the info at hand before venturing into any.
You should know that there is research that demonstrates that folks ages 10-15 who begin steady dating often do more poorly in school and have more behaviour problems. Thus, there is some agreement as to what is too “young”, but there is little understanding of a universal right age. Most experts believe that if teens under age 15 are allowed to date, they should engage in group dates exclusively and a responsible adult should be present.
Having a crush or desiring a romantic partner is perfectly natural and part of the biological changes of puberty. However, involvement in a serious or exclusive romantic relationship can create problems. True romantic relationships are about intimacy, or communicating detailed, personal information verbally, and physical contact and closeness. So I do believe that as a teenager, you need to first form an identity and know who you are before developing a healthy intimate relationship.
The dark side of dating in the teen years is that it can put you at risk. Frequent dating is connected with adolescent risk behaviours such as school failure (poor school performance and limited educational goals), drug use, and delinquency. Other problems include depression and sexual activities.
Now that we’ve established that there is no universal age for dating, you shouldn’t ever be pressured into it. Don’t start dating because your friends are, or, because someone is talking you into it. Trust me, it’s better to remain single as a teenager.
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17 thoughts on “ANSWERED: At what age should one start dating?”
When you’re ready, no one will tell you
16
18 for boys 16 for girls
20
Well, I think there’s nothing like dating for teens. It’s only an avenue for sexual immortality
At 18 and above
18 and above
at ,18year 4 me o
Nice advice by admin
It depends on d kind of friendship if it d type dat helps ur studies gud but if not quiet
what if d guy is always disturbing u nd start using it against u like insulting u what are u supposed 2 do
Encourage one’s mind and future
Yes, dating at a teen age is really risky and can cause depression and behavior problems. Advice, stay away from it as best as you can. Love and know yourself first before doing someone else’s. I speak from experience. I’m just 14.
Actually there is no particular age to date. When it’s the right time you’ll know. But the question is how will you know? I don’t have a answer yet because i’m still young . But according to my mum and the admin dating is not what you should focus on now as a teenager, face the main thing on your mind which should be education. Don’t go around with boys that trick girls.:)
To moi deres no age, no one wuld tell u, bt i still go wit 16 for guyz and 15 for guyz. No office.
No offence
Dating is for the boy and the girl to understand each other. Dating should start at eighteen years. If u date before eighteen years, you have started spoiling your life. So just keep your self safe. That’s my advice