If there’s anything commonly desired by all humans is the need to naturally draw others to oursleves. We want to command attraction. Nobody wants to be avoided; we all want people to come around us. But how exactly can we do this? Below are 10 simple tips.
- Smile: A little smile on your face would do. Everyone knows a frowning face is a volcano about to erupt.
- Maintain facial hair: Trim and shave your facial hair regularly. If you want to keep moustache and remain beard, keep them neat.
- Wear well-fit clothes: Do not wear oversized or too tight clothes. Use the best colour combination and ensure they are pressed.
- Keep eye contact: Keep regular eye contact during conversations.
- Walk confidently: How? Keep your head up high, your eyes looking forward and your body relaxed.
Fight the odour: Bad odour can hamper on all your efforts to be attractive. People, by default, will avoid you if you smell badly. Visit a dentist if you have mouth odour and wear deodorant if you have body odour. Smell nice always- Keep a cheerful disposition: Laugh and make others laugh. Nobody wants to be around constantly sad people. Laughter is good medicine and a sign of happiness. Everyone who wants to be happy is naturally drawn to cheerful individuals.
- Good body Language: If you communicate a busy body language, people will keep away from you. They would not want to disturb you. People are naturally drawn to relaxed and calm individuals.
- Reach out to the other person. Show that you are always interested in people by asking questions. People feel important when they realise you take interest in them. RED FLAG: Do not probe into very personal affairs.
- Be relaxed: Nervousness isn’t liked. So, be confident and relaxed while dealing with people. Be confident and open yourself to others. Communicate with them and be easy.
