If you are wondering what it is about that guy that makes him the toast of girls, yet you are struggling to even have someone say hello, you are in luck. There are several concrete, easy things you can do right now to increase your attractiveness and get the girl of your dreams.
Wear Red
One of the easiest ways to increase your attractiveness is to wear red – even just a splash of it on your belt or socks, if you can. One particular study took pictures of men and women, and then manipulated the images so that they had a red, blue or yellow frame around the picture. Then, the three versions were shown to members of the opposite sex – and the same guy wearing red was deemed more attractive almost every time.
One note of warning: if you will be in a room with a lot of guys, it is best to wear something blue, since blue is associated with trust and respect. The same study found that red increases aggression and competition in men.
Make Prolonged Eye Contact
While a girl making eye contact with a guy is a bold move, a guy making eye contact with a girl that he’s attracted to will instantly garner attention, make him more attractive, approachable, and increase feelings of friendliness.
When you see someone that you are interested in, look them in the eye and hold their gaze until they look away. Look with appreciation instead of aggression, and if they feel even a smidgen of connection, they will look down and blush, then look back to see if you are still watching. Make sure that you are.
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Wear Something Touchable
When you wear something that’s obviously soft, cozy, or something people want to touch, they will. Many will touch without asking, however those that ask first are the ones that are a bit shy and want to be sure it’s okay to get in your personal space. These are the folks you want to focus on, the ones who ask, as they are showing you they both respect you and find you attractive on some level.
If you can’t think of anything soft or touchable to wear, wear something that stands out, and will make folks reach out to you and ask, comment or start a conversation.
Pickup artists call this peacocking, and use it extensively when looking to have beautiful women approach them instead of the other way around.
See Also: The Type of Dressing that Attracts Girls
