You are a beautiful teenager, different kind of guys come your way to woo you, they want to be your friends because you are beautiful and attractive, but you know you should not relate with every kind of guy that comes your way. Here are some tips to avoid irresponsible guys.
1. You attract who you are
It’s very important to know your person. Your appearance and mannerism will reflect the kind of person you are. If you act irresponsibly, then you will attract to yourself irresponsible people like you. You’ve got to be a positive minded person in order to be able to attract your kind of person. So, be a person with good and positive attitude.
2. Don’t engage in the negativity
If a guy approaches you and begins to talk in a negative swirl, try to change topic, but don’t engage in the negativity. Give a simple reply, such as “I see” or “Okay”. Let him understand that, this is not the kind of topic you like to dwell on. Whereas if he/she is being positive, reply in affirmation and enthusiasm. When you do it often enough, he will soon realize what’s going on, and will start to be more positive in his communication.
3. Hang out In groups
To address this, have someone else around when conversing with such an irresponsible individual. In fact, the more people, the better. This way, when he hears your conversation with others, he will know you are not his kind of person.
4. Be mindful of the time you go out and where you go to
The time and where you go or stroll to matters a lot, when you go to hidden places where irresponsible guys are at odd hours of the day, there is never a way you can avoid them, so be careful! Go to the right places at the right time.
5. Check out your female friends
People you associate with also determines the kind of guys that will come your way, including the kind of guys yours female friends move with. Have you heard of the phrase “Show me your friend and i’ll tell you who you are?”. This explains it all.
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6. Don’t be attracted to their luxuries
Whatever they have; cars, money etc should not bother you. Be satisfied with what you have,this way he will know that you can’t be carried away and then in turn not try to cover up his bad nature. He means that if he is not responsible, he isn’t and money or luxuries won’t cover up for that.