Imagine this scenario:
There this cute guy chatting with his friends, just opposite from you, and you just couldn’t help yourself but look his way. And then, oh no! (sheer horror), he caught you eyeballing him. Whether you look away quickly or just give in and say a quick “hi,” you still feel like you have been caught. Don’t freak out just yet. There’s hope left for you in the “still cool” department. Here’s why.
Some guys actually think it’s somewhat sweet. In a survey conducted by a teen dating website, they collected a slew of responses from guys, and this is what they had to say about the matter:
I think it’s kind of cool if I catch a girl staring at me. I mean, it’s not the perfect way to start a conversation, but hey I will take any opportunity to talk to a cute girl. – Eddie, 17
There was a girl at school I caught looking over at me, and I kind of took it as a signal that she liked me, which was cool because I liked her too. – Sean, 15
If I ever catch a girl looking at me, I feel like it’s kind of flattering.-T.J., 16
This one time I caught eyes with a girl in my class. She wasn’t really someone I was that into, but she was always nice. I didn’t make a big deal about it, because I could tell she was embarrassed.- Jake, 15
I think as long as a girl at least smiles, or says hello to ease the tension if I catch her staring, it’s no big deal. I can see how the situation can be uncomfortable or awkward, but as long as she acts normal after the fact, most guys would not even think twice…at least I wouldn’t. – Andrew, 17
Do these serve as proof enough that it’s totally not worth stressing over because chances are, he’s cool with it? Of course, you may still feel embarrassed, but it’s nothing to beat yourself over for. And if it ever happens that your eyes connect with your crush’s, just smile. Remember, just smile!
But if he would rather be a total buffoon about it, and makes a dumb comment to you, then he’s so not worth it.
Does this apply to boys who get caught staring at their girl crushes? Most definitely, yes! For the simple reason that boys and girls are not much different, boys are just better at concealing their emotions. And the advice applies to boys too, if you are ever caught; give her your 1 million Watts smile, and melt her heart.
See Also: How To Act Cool Around Your Crush and Make Them Fall For You
What to Do If Your Crush Catches You Staring at Him/Her?
Imagine this scenario:
There this cute guy chatting with his friends, just opposite from you, and you just couldn’t help yourself but look his way. And then, oh no! (sheer horror), he caught you eyeballing him. Whether you look away quickly or just give in and say a quick “hi,” you still feel like you have been caught. Don’t freak out just yet. There’s hope left for you in the “still cool” department. Here’s why.
Some guys actually think it’s somewhat sweet. In a survey conducted by a teen dating website, they collected a slew of responses from guys, and this is what they had to say about the matter:
I think it’s kind of cool if I catch a girl staring at me. I mean, it’s not the perfect way to start a conversation, but hey I will take any opportunity to talk to a cute girl. – Eddie, 17
There was a girl at school I caught looking over at me, and I kind of took it as a signal that she liked me, which was cool because I liked her too. – Sean, 15
If I ever catch a girl looking at me, I feel like it’s kind of flattering.-T.J., 16
This one time I caught eyes with a girl in my class. She wasn’t really someone I was that into, but she was always nice. I didn’t make a big deal about it, because I could tell she was embarrassed.- Jake, 15
I think as long as a girl at least smiles, or says hello to ease the tension if I catch her staring, it’s no big deal. I can see how the situation can be uncomfortable or awkward, but as long as she acts normal after the fact, most guys would not even think twice…at least I wouldn’t. – Andrew, 17
Do these serve as proof enough that it’s totally not worth stressing over because chances are, he’s cool with it? Of course, you may still feel embarrassed, but it’s nothing to beat yourself over for. And if it ever happens that your eyes connect with your crush’s, just smile. Remember, just smile!
But if he would rather be a total buffoon about it, and makes a dumb comment to you, then he’s so not worth it.
Does this apply to boys who get caught staring at their girl crushes? Most definitely, yes! For the simple reason that boys and girls are not much different, boys are just better at concealing their emotions. And the advice applies to boys too, if you are ever caught; give her your 1 million Watts smile, and melt her heart.
See Also: How To Act Cool Around Your Crush and Make Them Fall For You