Do you have a celebrity crush? Almost every teen does. And truth be told…it is a completely normal phenomenon. Growing up as a teen, I had a couple of my own celebrity crushes, chief among whom is Genevieve Nnaji. Yes I was once a teenager; breaking news! Lol. Anyway, as I was saying, it is completely normal to crush on your favourite celebrity; so long as you don’t make the experience creepy by obsessing over them and doing crazy stuff. And this brings me to the main reason why I am writing, which is how teens can effectively handle their celebrity crushes and not let the feeling get overboard. Read on to see the tips please.
You must realize that the romantic feelings you feel for your celebrity crush is just temporary, a phase; nothing to take too personally. The sooner you realize this and face it the better you will be able to handle the feeling. And one way to make this realization is to always bear in mind that you might never even get to meet the celebrity you are crushing on. As a matter of fact, they do not even know that you exists. They are too busy living their lives and basking in the euphoria of their stardom to bother themselves with the likelihood of someone like you lying in your bed at night and thinking about them. So be wise, get over yourself!
Do not spend your whole time thinking about them. You have a life which you must live. So live it please! Having already realized that your celebrity crushing is a waste of your precious time, it is then apt to stop wasting your time. And one of the best ways to do that is to stop thinking about these celebrities. Remove from within your reach anything that will keep you constantly thinking about them. This way, you will get over them soonest.
Realize that backing away from your celebrity crush and untangling the feelings you have for [fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”yes” overflow=”visible”][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][them] will not happen within split seconds. It takes time, eventually happening overtime. And that is why it is necessary for you to begin to untangle those feelings now before you do something silly just because you “love” someone who doesn’t even know you are alive somewhere.
You can still admire your favourite celebrities, but learn to see them more like friends other than romantic partners. This is because they will never be. It is important to over-stress this point because many teens have gotten themselves depressed and worse just because they let their feelings for their favourite celebrities get the best of them. Do not ever dream that just by dreaming about it any one of these celebs will realize that you “love” and then get attracted to you too. Reality does not work like that.
All the best in your romantic lives…if you have any. Lol. In the meantime though, you can share with me who your celebrity crushes are. Leave comments in the comment section below.
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